Just another personal post to trace the reasons behind people falling in love. The views presented in this post are of my own and are backed with solid human psychology rules and you need not agree with them.
Well, I don't believe in mysteries. Every thing happening in your personal life is due to a reason. Actually our past thoughts are more responsible for our present life. If anyone says that falling in love happens without any reason, I will not agree with him/her.
In the process of falling in love, major role is played by subconscious mind. Human mind tend to fill psychological gaps. Our mind always search for the things that can make us happy. If some person can make your life feel better and you are already single then there is a high chance that you will fall in love with him/her.
A boy who is shy in nature will easily fall in love with a girl who can mingle with people easily because the boy lack that quality and he is searching for the person who posses that quality. That means he is trying to cover the unmet goal in his life.
A girl who is low on self esteem can be easily attracted to a boy who can make her feel worthy in this world. Hope this is clear.
Sometimes similarities also results in people falling in love. Suppose a person shares the same beliefs as you or whose life principles are same as of you, then chances are high for those falling in love.
We people always fall in love according to the rules and beliefs stored in subconscious mind. Sometimes even we may not aware of those rules.
Suppose person A is single. His subconscious mind already inserted a belief that his partner should have some educational background related to him. Also he is interested in girl having long black hair. That means unless he is not going to meet any girl having these qualities he will not fall in love. That is the reason why we may not fall in love with everyone.
What about love at first sight?
Some people thinks that love at first sight also exists. But in reality it is not true at all. Let us suppose that person B met a tall girl with smiling face, and he thinks that he fallen in love with her in the first sight itself.
Actually what happened is, person B subconscious mind only criteria for falling in love is tall girl with smiling face. Even person B may not aware of this and he may think that falling in love is a mystical experience and no one can define any reasons for it. Generally love at first sight happens only in the cases where looks enjoy top priority in our subconscious mind.
Sometimes meeting a person who is having the same looks may also be the reason for falling in love. For instance you may love a girl whose personality is resembling your mother. Like the same way a girl may attracted to a boy who is very honest and having a sense of humor because her father too exhibits these qualities. Of course this may not work in all cases.
What is unconditional love?
Unconditional love is nothing but loving a person for what he/she is and not for what he/she is having like personal car, bank balance, assets etc..
Generally unconditional love is rare on earth. But still it exists! People always search for a partner to fulfill the unmet desires in their life and if any person is not having any unmet desires in his life, then I am sure that person will never fall in love with anybody. Even still if he/she loves then assume it is the real unconditional love.
Th reason why I have written this post is to make aware of you about yourself and your subconscious belief so that your life can be totally in your control. The reason why many some people are suffering is because people doesn't know what they really wants. Just daily spend some time to know more about yourself.
"To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world." --Anonymous
Well, I don't believe in mysteries. Every thing happening in your personal life is due to a reason. Actually our past thoughts are more responsible for our present life. If anyone says that falling in love happens without any reason, I will not agree with him/her.
In the process of falling in love, major role is played by subconscious mind. Human mind tend to fill psychological gaps. Our mind always search for the things that can make us happy. If some person can make your life feel better and you are already single then there is a high chance that you will fall in love with him/her.
A boy who is shy in nature will easily fall in love with a girl who can mingle with people easily because the boy lack that quality and he is searching for the person who posses that quality. That means he is trying to cover the unmet goal in his life.
A girl who is low on self esteem can be easily attracted to a boy who can make her feel worthy in this world. Hope this is clear.
Sometimes similarities also results in people falling in love. Suppose a person shares the same beliefs as you or whose life principles are same as of you, then chances are high for those falling in love.
We people always fall in love according to the rules and beliefs stored in subconscious mind. Sometimes even we may not aware of those rules.
Suppose person A is single. His subconscious mind already inserted a belief that his partner should have some educational background related to him. Also he is interested in girl having long black hair. That means unless he is not going to meet any girl having these qualities he will not fall in love. That is the reason why we may not fall in love with everyone.
What about love at first sight?
Some people thinks that love at first sight also exists. But in reality it is not true at all. Let us suppose that person B met a tall girl with smiling face, and he thinks that he fallen in love with her in the first sight itself.
Actually what happened is, person B subconscious mind only criteria for falling in love is tall girl with smiling face. Even person B may not aware of this and he may think that falling in love is a mystical experience and no one can define any reasons for it. Generally love at first sight happens only in the cases where looks enjoy top priority in our subconscious mind.
Sometimes meeting a person who is having the same looks may also be the reason for falling in love. For instance you may love a girl whose personality is resembling your mother. Like the same way a girl may attracted to a boy who is very honest and having a sense of humor because her father too exhibits these qualities. Of course this may not work in all cases.
What is unconditional love?
Unconditional love is nothing but loving a person for what he/she is and not for what he/she is having like personal car, bank balance, assets etc..
Generally unconditional love is rare on earth. But still it exists! People always search for a partner to fulfill the unmet desires in their life and if any person is not having any unmet desires in his life, then I am sure that person will never fall in love with anybody. Even still if he/she loves then assume it is the real unconditional love.
Th reason why I have written this post is to make aware of you about yourself and your subconscious belief so that your life can be totally in your control. The reason why many some people are suffering is because people doesn't know what they really wants. Just daily spend some time to know more about yourself.
"To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world." --Anonymous
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